Ling worked in a multi-national corporation in Shanghai and happily married to her superior a few months ago. Her husband Raphael was from Germany. Being young and capable, he was assigned to Shanghai branch to assist in company’s expansion in China. Over there, he met his dream girl and decided to settle down in this strange city. While enjoying the marriage, the newlywed already had conflicts due to cultural differences.
One day, the light in the kitchen was not working. Raphael was going to replace the bulb. Since the light was quite high, he moved a chair over and stood on it. Afraid that Raphael might accidentally lose his footing, Ling ran over to hold the chair and his legs.
“I’m trying to help you. Just in case you lost your balance.”
“What?” Raphael said angrily, “You think your husband can’t even change a light bulb?”
Ling felt wronged and upset. Being a traditional Chinese girl, she was just trying to show her care. But her behavior, which was quite common in Chinese culture, turned out to be an insult to her husband.
In this generation of globalization and migration, it is no longer difficult to observe different cultures in one society. Not only for the newlywed in the story, we all experience intercultural differences in our lives one way or another. Thus, it is important to understand and adapt to various cultural behaviors in order to avoid conflicts and misunderstandings.