Lisa was student from NUS. During her second year, she enrolled in the student exchange program and got a chance to study in the University of California, Santa Barbara. In order to experience real American cultures, she decided to rent an apartment instead of staying on campus. Luckily, she found a single-room apartment that was only five-minute walk from campus. What’s more, she had a local girl as her roommate. Everything was perfect and Lisa was really excited about her new life.
Laura was Lisa’s roommate. She was a typical California girl – friendly and cheerful. After a few days, the two girls became very good friends. However, there was one problem between the girls. Laura had a boyfriend who lived in San Diego. Every Friday, her boyfriend would come to Santa Barbara to spend the weekend with Laura. Since Lisa and Laura slept in one bedroom, Lisa felt quite embarrassed to share one bedroom with a couple. One day, Lisa implied her feeling to Laura and told her she was from a more conservative country. Laura looked quite embarrassed. She apologized and explained that it was their culture. From then on, Laura never asked her boyfriend to stay overnight. Her boyfriend still came to Santa Barbara every weekend, but he could only stay for a few hours then had to head back to San Diego. Lisa was a bit sorry about it. She also felt Laura was not that close to her anymore.
If you were Lisa, what would you do?